There is hope for women who want to awaken sexually

When you hear or read the word 'sex' – what do you think? How do you react to it? If you feel uncomfortable, or perhaps sad, or annoyed, I encourage you to read this through and then see what you think. I am going to talk about having better sex, but not in the way you often read about in women's magazines, which go on about sex toys and different sex position to enhance your sex life with your partner, or husband.
 
Some of you might have heard about Tantra – and Tantra is something that I find really powerful as a personal development tool. It's important to be clear about that Tantra is NOT just about sex, Tantra has much more to offer.

First of all Tantra can help you to heal the relationship that you have with yourself, your body, and your sexual nature. You can heal emotional wounds from past relationships with others, to eventually get to the true you, the true person that you already are, the true you that have been hiding behind the fear of being rejected, the fear of getting into a new relationship that will not work out…again.

In my work helping women to re-discover their sparkle, I get inspiration from the Tantra world and I recommend people where to turn when they are ready to take a course or a workshop, or books to read, or some sort of step towards the Tantric journey.

I lost my sparkle – including my sexual energy

For years I felt that I lost my sparkle in life and I found life flat and with no purpose and sexually I felt flat, I felt that I had very little sexual energy left, frankly sex was boring. I knew it had nothing to do with my wonderful husband. On good days I thought "well it is part of life, it fades away eventually", on bad days I made myself wrong, something was wrong with me, and I didn't know what to do about it.

What I did know was that all these magazines and TV programmes about sex, wouldn't work for me. All these things that they tell you to "do", like buy these sex toys and it will work wonders …yeah right…And all these recommendations to try these new exciting positions and it will make you a sex goddess….yeah…right…What it did was to put me off even more about my sexuality and my self-worth got even lower.

Tantra can help you to find the sexy Sparkle again

Tantra is not the answer to everything and it's not for everybody, like anything else in life. But I want to invite you to have a look into what it is and see if it could be something for you to start to practise – as a personal development tool.

Tantra can help you to find that joy, or as I call it, to find that Inner Giggle in every day life. The effect of practising Tantra is about freeing yourself from old and painful patterns and behaviour to have a playful and spontaneous fun in sexuality and life.

I did a workshop in Sweden with Johan "Jay" Ekenberg, who runs workshops such as 'Do you really live the life you want?' and 'Sex – A Highway to the Divine'. I took the latter course and it really helped me to find a purpose in my life and to enjoy sex fully and to use my sexual energy in other areas in my life. To me Tantra as a tool has helped me to feel better and enjoy life much more and my relationship with my husband for nearly 20 years has taken off to a new exciting level.

Here is an interview that I did with Jay.

Here is another site where you can find more information about Tantra